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    November 30

    你适合结婚么?

    PIG看完3遍《涩女郎》后心血来潮要在MSN上和我聊结婚大事。我眉头一皱:这孩子难道像故事里的“结婚狂”那样犯了“婚姻综合狂想症”?

    P对适婚年龄很敏感,女人什么样的年龄才是适婚年龄?我想大概是二十六岁或二十八岁开始吧,一旦到了三十五或三十六岁,就不适婚,而是过了适婚年龄。或许如张小娴做的调查一样,好些女人的结婚原因是:已经到了适婚年龄。虽然粉P今年芳龄24,但她已经自动把适婚年龄自动提前----多情的种子已经萌发,却久旱未见甘霖,渴望结婚到惶惶不可终日。

      究竟是谁定下所谓的适婚年龄?其实世上本无适合结婚的年龄,对女人只有适合生育的年龄,女人一过三十生育便成了高龄产妇,一到更年期就不能生育。不想要孩子的根本无须理会所谓的适育年龄,即使是想要孩子的也随着科技进步淡化了年龄界限,我前两日还听说有45岁“老蚌怀珠”生下第一胎。女人可以有选择的迟些要孩子-----这样你有更深的阅历,更丰厚的经济去抚养孩子。

      女人没有适婚年龄,只有适婚心态。法律只规定了早婚的年限,却没因为你年纪太大不让你结婚。心境未成熟的女人,对感情的态度也未成熟,所以还是表结婚的好,粉P常常以为男人在婚后会为自己改变,其实结婚后未必会和想象中的那样。唯有等待多一点,经历多一些,再去结婚吧。

    至于男人就没有适婚年龄,也没有适合生育的年龄。只要男人身体强壮,只要他们想,90岁也能生孩子-----卡.布兰度不就老树开花了么?!

    当然,男人也必须有适婚心态,但我觉得男人更需要有适合结婚的银行存款!

    综上所述,妄下结论-----粉PIG暂不适婚!

    Comments (5)

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    Picture of Anonymous
    HUMA蹦跳蹦跳再蹦跳外加蹦跳蹦跳 wrote:
    兄弟。。你要结婚啊~
    Dec. 5
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    Spainviajero wrote:
    在合适的时间碰到合适的人就结吧.
    Dec. 1
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    lynn wrote:
    结婚是一种选择,你可以在所谓适婚年龄选择和某男前往香港迪斯尼共度浪漫顺便SHOPPING结婚钻戒,你当然也可以选择去一个新的地方重新开始你的生活和工作。
    婚姻没有所谓适合与否,看你怎么抉择。
    不过既然选择就要走下去,完成得漂亮当然更好。
    Dec. 1
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    ERINCHEN117 wrote:
    呵呵,我倒觉得结婚是一种心态的调整,结了婚的女人因心理的成熟而显得更有魅力。
    Nov. 30
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    Allen_Lian wrote:
    再坐沙发:) 男大当婚女大当嫁,虽然我不认识粉P,不过还是要支持。条件许可就要结婚。
    Nov. 30

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